Think proxies (haproxy), routers, forwarders, web servers (nginx) etc. Where memory context per connection should be minimal, and everything should be as close as possible to the select/poll/epoll loop.
Funny enough, this also includes demos, quick example scripts, and benchmarks. I wonder if that what hooked most people to the reactor pattern -- small examples in Twisted, Node, etc, look pretty easy and simple. But when you start adding business logic and callback chains evolve into callback/errback trees 10 levels deeps when things get very scary.