I've worked as a IHSS worker. I didn't see the abuses you describe, but don't doubt they happened.

That said, these workers need to be paid more.

I took care of an old friend. I would have taken care of him for free, but since I was offered minimum wage; I took it.

I think what bother me most were the people who used the system to get out of taking care of a parent, or family member. I live among very wealthy individuals. They are very cheap when it comes to take care of dad, or mom.

Yes, they have busy lives. What am I saying--usually one sits home figuring out the color palate for the third bathroom remodel--that, "just isn't right?".

They are shocked to find what Home Heath Care individuals are paid, but go along with the program. "That life?". When they are offered a someone qualified, and charges a living wage for the county; they quietly go with the cheapest option. If the senior is still all there, they always hire the best help. The problem is when it's up to the kids. They cheap it out. I just don't get it.

I took care of my friend, until I opened that door, and he was dead on his cheap, rented hospital bed. (Medical rentals charged $200/month for a bed most of you would sit on.)

Ah, this is putting me in a bad mood. RIP RB. We had some great times! Those river trips were legendary. I miss the fun we had. I even miss the weekly phone calls asking about the new sound your car is making. He was my best friend.