In my 20 years of experience with apartments and noise, "most" people do not care about disturbing others. This is at best "some" people, but likely "a few".
Every single time I've done it, they've apologized, turned it down, and usually thanked me for doing it myself instead of calling the cops.
I've lived here for about three years now. It's a smaller pile of anecdata than yours but I don't feel like I'm likely to see a different trend any time soon.