The company will be motivated to do the right thing by you, to avoid litigation and spooking current and prospective employees. You might not get all the value you might have hoped for, but likely most.
The company will be motivated to do the right thing by you, to avoid litigation and spooking current and prospective employees. You might not get all the value you might have hoped for, but likely most.
How does this work with right of first refusal?
If you leave the company, you have to exercise the options (typically within 30-60 days), and pay not only the strike price but the AMT on the difference between the strike price and the latest per-share valuation (i.e., the paper value of the options). So if you have options at a strike price of $50k that are now worth $5mm, you're in for well over $1mm of taxes payable -- now -- in cash.
My understanding is that this practice is legally dubious and has been challenged, but IANAL.
This allows the company in question to effectively keep many shares/options that are given out to employees who were lured into the company with the "you're an equity partner!" line... only unicorns will pay all those little employees for the most part.
All the "we are a family" bs that any company pushes is generally crap.
If you fuckup in your family, you're generally not disowned.
In any company - you mess up and you can be cut...
If you have big enough issues to complain a lot to HR or speak disparagingly about your employer... Then you need to start looking for a new position, silently. HR is not the friend of the employee, mostly.
And don't forget the all-too-common practice of the hiring manager saying (or strongly implying) something to the effect of, "I'm a bit troubled by all the questions you seem to have about compensation, especially with regard to how much your options would be worth if you only worked here for a few years. I really got the impression that you were committed to our mission and a good cultural fit."
True, but also blame companies when they fail to educate their employees about the mechanics of their equity grant -- or even worse, when they obfuscate in response to direct questions on that subject.
If there's no one willing to buy at least $1 million from you, then you can't pay the IRS.
It's pretty common and I've had no experience where it causes any issues. It's a cost of doing business when you're talking about equity in a business that has a lot of people involved.