I once got derided by a gen-Y'er for describing something as "neat". Apparently that word isn't groovy anymore to describe something that's swell.
BTW, not saying don't use it. If that's who you are and that's how you speak, that's cool :)
If your wife asks how she looks, don't say "ok," and if your coworker asks about their presentation, don't say, "it was neat."
I also like using "fantastic" instead of awesome and often get strange looks, but a bonus of being older is I don't give a crap!