You can read any two psychology "textbooks" and get two differing opinions about how to address the same issues...
It's not a science folks. It's never been. It's always been an opinion-based practice, and this just proves the fraud being perpetrated on the people of this earth who trust these charlatans for help on matters ranging from personal mental health all the way to court "expert" testimony that can swing the decision of a judge or a jury one way or the other...