> Reading these notes make me feel embarrassed for the author.

If that post made you feel this way, then her follow-up article will have you cringing and wincing:

http://sarah.thesharps.us/2015/10/06/what-makes-a-good-commu...

Aparently she knows for a fact that all those points definitely make a good community, despite never having run one the size and scale of the Linux kernel project.

Pure arrogance and entitlement.