I moderated on OKCupid for years, and this is so, so true.
In fact, it usually went more like:
"Heyyy guurllll lemme holla at you"
"Thanks, but no thanks"
"Fine bitch, you ugly anyway"
That, or dick pics. So many dick pics.
In fact, it usually went more like:
"Heyyy guurllll lemme holla at you"
"Thanks, but no thanks"
"Fine bitch, you ugly anyway"
That, or dick pics. So many dick pics.
I also worked as a moderator for a (local) dating site. We only checked on the messages that were reported either by the users or by the anti-spam filters. Also this was clearly specified in the privacy policy and EULA pages.
Also, you're assuming that the idiot men would even be able to tell. Women mostly ignore their nonsense now, right? So it wouldn't look much different.
9 times out of 10, the response was "Well, you ain't all that".
The implicit assumption was that girls should feel flattered to have some random man tell them they're attractive, and have no ego or self-confidence of their own.