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Could somebody help me with this? I'd like to understand it.
Never mind people who are just starting out -- I think many people on HN could really benefit from this perspective.
Also, I've found it a lot easier to reason about organizational issues if you don't fixate so much on "great people." More and more people enter the workforce with the idea of competence as a "ladder" being firmly ingrained in their heads. It doesn't work that way; people succeed as a function of who they are and the environment they're in. Your "smart person" is often totally useless somewhere else (see, for example: the huge numbers of FAANG-ish employees that struggle to do anything in smaller companies, and vice-versa.)
I found this entire article to read like it comes from the heyday of "only associate with people as _great_ as you want to be", which I think (a) was terribly reasoned and (b) hasn't really worked out that great, especially for the people who followed this advice.
And sometimes, the people around the problems just refuse to collaborate. In those situations, I try my best for a bit, and then go look for something else. We only have so much time and energy, and we already inherit enough intractable problems that "must" be solved to go looking for more.
I've done a lot of "public prestige building." But the things that actually got me to this point, quickly, were:
1. Being close to the money within the companies I worked at
2. Keeping up a habit of meeting and talking to people 1-1
I realized about five years ago that I enjoy meeting people 1-1 much more than publicly writing and speaking. You can say things a lot more honestly 1-1 without worrying about who might see it one day, and it makes me feel better than trying to turn myself into a public spectacle.
With folks getting much more comfortable meeting remotely, this has become even easier. I've met some great folks who I now have outside-of-work relationships with as well. Usually all it takes is asking someone if they'd like to meet again in three months or so; and, after a couple of these, asking them if there's someone they wouldn't mind introducing on a no-agenda basis.
I also genuinely don't have an agenda for this, other than that I like meeting people.
However, I also find this opening statement telling:
> Most months I get at least one email from an engineering leader who believes they’d be a candidate for significantly more desirable roles if their personal brand were just better known.
Most of us are bad at self-introspecting about our careers. I suspect a lot of the folks thinking this way need more than brand recognition, because this perspective (to me) would be a potential sign of lack of maturity that I would want in a senior leader. (This is a complex topic, and one that I think needs to be handled on case-by-case basis rather than recommending general approaches.)