I've taken a different approach and I have become extremely conservative in extracting out responsibilities in a dedicated role.
I no longer try to build teams with the design role externalized in someone else, I just focus on finding developers who are also good designers. This is hard but I'd rather fight this battle than the collaboration one
If there truly is a 10x designer that wants to work with me then it's worth it, otherwise it's synergy of having one person be able to fully ship on their own outweighs the overhead of collaboration