My relationship with my parents is good. They truly sent me there with the best intentions and I know that. They have expressed remorse and have apologized many times over the years.
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My relationship with my parents is good. They truly sent me there with the best intentions and I know that. They have expressed remorse and have apologized many times over the years.
Anything lower then expeditor weren’t allowed to talk to one another without a higher up “being aware” or couldn’t use the bathroom without an escort(who could deny you if they were busy or just didn’t want to). If you wanted to speak to a staff member(even if they were right next to you) you had to ask a higher leveled person who would then tell the staff you wanted to talk. At meal time the highest member at the table got to pick the food first followed by the next highest and so on.
elan also did the same thing with boys and girls. They were not supposed to talk to each other and doing so could get you in trouble. elan had like 4 houses and on the very rare occasions the houses crossed paths, you were not allowed to talk to them or even LOOK at them.
They also stripped you of any “old you” identities. Plain clothes, no logos, no piercings, no jewelry, no non standard hair colors/cuts(I don’t think they even allowed boys to have long hair), no hats, and no hoodies.
They did the same thing with music as well. No swear words or extreme stuff. Thankfully burning cds were a new thing when I was there and my used his works CD burner to burn me some good music I liked.
If they suspected you were going to escape( pretty much impossible, the place is in bumfuck Maine in the woods) they would make you wear fluorescent clothing, and in the case of boys… fluorescent PINK clothing and take your shoelaces. Sometimes make you wear a sign around your neck as well.
The one good thing about elan was it wasn’t backed by religion. I don’t even remember an option for church.
I can say 100% that screaming at people was very much encouraged(during “therapy” sessions or as punishment). It was referred to as “getting your feelings off”. Sometimes it would be in a group setting where you sat in a circle and everyone had to pick someone else in the group and scream at them as loud as possible about anything the person did that made you angry or annoyed you. Other times it was a form of punishment where they made you stand against a wall or in the corner and everyone else in the “house” would crowd around and all scream as loud as possible at you all at once. They only rules were you can’t make fun of them for things like race, sexuality, appearance, etc.
My parents sent me there with the best intentions. But elan tricked them. And they realized that. They have both apologized numerous times and explained how they regret the decision. Last year, so over 20 years later, out of the blue my dad just blurted out “I’m so sorry we sent you to elan. We truly didn’t know…”. It took me by surprise.
elan also had complete control of every letter or phone call. You have to earn the privilege to them. I had no contact with my parents for the first 2 months. And when I did, it was over a speakerphone in a room with a elan staff member who literally had their finger on the button to hang up if I pleaded for my parents to take me home. And before the call that day they had been coaching me for days on what I could and could not say. And if I said something I wasn’t supposed to I would lose all privileges and go “on shotdown”. elans vicegrip on communication actually led to my parents withdrawing me. They sensed something wasn’t right and (against elans wishes) demanded a in person visit with me(in person visits are a extremely privileged event). They saw I had lost a ton of weight and looked all fucked up and withdrew me.
I still remember the first time I saw him a year or two later... He was home on a visit and snuck out of his house and rode his bike to our friends house. We got really baked and he got all serious and was like "Guys.... Do I have an accent now? I fucking hate how the people down there talk" lol
That was the start of one of the worst times in my life.
elan was a real life hell.
AMA if you want.
It wouldn't matter if it was. I don't believe it is, but it wouldn't matter. Signals entire design is to NOT trust any server. Messages are encrypted on the device before it's ever sent to signals servers. This is verifiably proven since the code is all open source. Every signal message could be logged and it still wouldn't matter thanks to signals ratcheting algorithm.
It never was closed source. They simply implemented a feature before uploading the code. Is there a rule to how how many commits need to be made in a time period? No.
> to integrate some cryptocurrency scams into it.
You clearly haven't read enough about why they chose to implement a payment system and why they chose to create their own. There are very good reasons they did both. Don't be salty because they didn't use the one you hold.
> why would I choose a messenger that requires a phone number over another that does not ?
Unless something has changed recently, telegram absolutely required my phone number. Signal is also working on replacing phone numbers with usernames.
> Mainly because the app is more stable and doesn't dictate its philosophy to the user. Proper e2e encryption has tradeoffs. Why shouldn't the user decide for which conversations he is willing to place convenience over security ?
One can't claim to be a secure encrypted chat app but then not enable it by default. It's completely fine to not have encryption, but it's not ok to mislead people into believing it's encrypted all the time.
> Why do you lose your history when you switch between android and ios ?
Mostly because signal doesn't store your messages. There is no central server that has all your info and chat history like telegram does. It makes this harder
This absolutely untrue. Signals source has NEVER been closed source. The Signal server source code(which isn't special and doesn't change that often) just had no public commits. The Signal client source code(what matters and makes Signal secure) was frequently updated.
> Signal may be open source at times,
Again, Signal has always been open source.
I have used CalyxOS and it's a great os. I did use microG and 98% of the apps I use worked flawlessly. If you have a supported phone, I'd definitely give it a shot.
- Dirty Mike & The Boys
Aurora store does NOT let you download paid apps. If you have paid for a app, you can sign into that account in aurora store and download the app you bought. However, the paid app will most likely not work as most apps use a SDK provided by google for verifying purchases in a app. This SDK heavily relies on google play services. And secondly, using a 3rd party store like aurora does violate googles use agreement which means google could ban your account if you sign into it from aurora. I would highly advise to not use a google account you care about with aurora.
They could also accept checks via the mail. Or cash via the mail. Or cryptocurrencies. Or gift cards. Or barter. There are multiple options available to them.
This site only uses publicly available information. How would it enable more harassment if someone can goto www.agency.com/officers and get the same info?
Check again. It's been updated for a while now. It's always updated, just sometimes less frequently then some people expect. There's no obligation to publish code every x months.
> smells like a fed op
You clearly have no idea what your talking about if you believe this. Signal is open source, it has been audited, it provides deterministic builds, is using state of the art cryptography, it's protocol is now the defacto secure communication protocol all other serious communication apps use, and is recommended and used by all the leading experts in cryptography and infosec...
> one of the creators was trying to use it to pump some shitcoin
Except there is 0 evidence that any pump and dump is going on. Or that moxie even owns mobilcoin. And calling it a "shitcoin" makes you out to be some cryptobro who shouldn't be taken seriously. There are numerous reasons they used a coin that was designed and optimized for use on a mobile phone. No other coins met their criteria. They also built some cool tech on top of that as well.
You're either seriously uninformed or are trying to spread fud.