Instead, admit quickly that you made a mistake and stop reading a book if it turns out to be not-awesome after a couple of pages.
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Instead, admit quickly that you made a mistake and stop reading a book if it turns out to be not-awesome after a couple of pages.
> What tools/metrics are there to help find meaningful books?
Okay, first I never read a book that is less than 10 years old. Why? Because 10 years is roughly the time needed for a book to withstand the wheel of time. 100 years, as noted in other comments as well, is even better. If old books are still read, they are probably good books. But I cannot tell you the best books of last year. The only thing I can do, is tell you what the most popular books of last year were. But popular books are not the same as best books.
Secondly, I only read books I'm willing to read multiple times. Reading a book more than once is a great experience. Usually, I get more out of the second or third read than from the first read. If, after reading a couple of pages of a book, I realize I will not want to re-read the book, I quit reading it.
...Okay?
I found the videos on youtube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCiZc0n6COY&list=PLruBu5BI5n...
If you really want to know if everything is declining, try measure it everyday for the next five years. For example, every day, rate your personal well being, track how (un)happy you are with the current software, how much you pay to your landlords and subscriptions, how many mistakes the police makes, the weather, everything, ... After 5 years you'll have a good idea if things actually got worse than they are now. Sure, some things will get worse, but definitely not everything, and some things will even be better than they are now.
On a more important note, do you know the big picture of your own life? What do you want to do with it? How do you see yourself in 10 years? Are you a better person today than you were yesterday? Knowing what you want to achieve in your life is thousand times more important than knowing what others want to achieve. Focus on what is within your control, not outside of it.
Richard Feynman was one of the best physicists from the 20th century. He helped creating the atomic bomb, and he worked on quantum electrodynamics. He received the Nobel prize in Physics in 1965 for his work on quantum electrodynamics.
When he worked at Cornell he suffered from a (small) burn out. He did his teaching duties, but, for his standards, produced very little more than that. He was worried that others would be disappointing in him, as it was impossible for him to live up to the expectations of others. This is were he developed an interesting idea: "You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. You have no responsibility to be like they expect you to be. It's their mistake, not your failing." [2]
If this task doesn't have measurable outcomes, or if you have nothing to report, than so be it. You tell that you have nothing to report. The company hired you to do this task, and they took a risk by putting you on this task. If you have nothing to report, than it's their responsibility to do something with that. Not yours. If they want to know why you have nothing to report, they will probably ask you to explain why you have nothing to report.
Footnotes:
[1] - Actually, I recommend reading the whole book. It's very funny and interesting at the same time.
[2] - Page 199, changed "I" into "You".
1. I only buy (and read) a book that is at least 10 years old. For me, 10 years is enough for other people to figure out if a book is worth to read. 95% of all books that are today's bestsellers turn out not to age well. Because none of the books are new, I can usually buy them used.
2. I'm only buying it if I'm pretty sure I'm going to read it. I always read the digital preview and sometimes (if available) I download the digital version which I read for a while. I want to know if I'm going to read the book before buying it.
Not sure if it's interesting to tackle. ;)
I enjoy reading the opinions of de Montaigne. He writes in a pleasant, easy, and funny way. Moreover, it gives you an interesting view on how people in the 16th century thought.
So you say you don't have much to do at work? Are others complaining about that? If not, good for you. It's better to do less, but do it well, than the other way around.
My personal 2ct: first understand how to solve "real" problems, then move on to the abstract theory. I cannot understand the theoretical mathematics behind a concept if I don't have at least one non-trivial example in my head which I understand completely.
Pdfs are then grouped into folders per topic.
I believe that being busy is often a case of not having priorities set right. Usually I have a list of 4 or 5 work related items per week that are high priority. Everything else can wait. Next, my private life (kids, partner, working out, eating well) has higher priority than work. If my private life is not in order, I first fix that before doing anything for work. Most who say "I'm (too) busy" have too many things to do in too few time, and would be better off (re-)prioritizing what is actually important and what could wait.
Not saying they don't exist. But I've yet to meet someone who only sleeps 5 hours a day, doesn't have bags under the eyes, and doesn't fall asleep in every meeting.
edit: With some exceptions. Some webapps are huge. They are near impossible to program without a solid framework. But this is no more than 5% of all the webapps I create.
I do exactly the same. Just journal all your thoughts, ideas, worries, and things to do into one joint place. The idea is that you don't have to ruminate anymore, because it's on paper and you can start on it the next day.