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I agree with the other commenter who said they don't build anything without a plan. I would double down on that and say that you need to overplan, and regularly toss out plans as you do research/discovery.
FWIW I would rather we stop using data centers for running social media sites and move it towards AI.
"It" obviously refers to writing about prompting. Would be clear if you read the OP. Humans have this amazing ability to understand context. Next time I'll be sure to include references and sources in my reply.
I have tried "underwear weekends" with my 2nd so he seems what it's like to pee himself but it's just not enough. He needs 2 full weeks and I'm sure he'd get it. By the end of the weekend he's just starting to grasp it, and then on Monday I put a diaper on him again and it's more confusing than helpful.
This is a low-level problem - its an emotional problem. People don't like to fail. They like to get people excited about the new plan. They don't want to do a retrospective and ask where did we go wrong? who messed up? Even if no one's job is on the line, people just don't like to do this. I've never seen more resistance to any type of process as much as I've seen it to retrospectives.
So it makes sense that people don't want to make a falsifiable bet to begin with. It's uncomfortable.
The solution is leadership. This is one of those things that needs to trickle down from a strong leader that values knowing what went wrong and makes it a low stakes discovery process.
But actually I've been cooked, and am recovering from the cookage. (?)
The biggest 'hack' for me is making all the scrolly apps "Hidden" on iphone. They end up in this hidden folder at the bottom so I have to intentionally go to them to open them. So I end up almost never using them. I went from 2 hours a day to 0 overnight just hiding the apps. Deleting them works too, but I can't delete since I help a local business where I have to post every couple of weeks. I tried all those apps that help you reduce your screen time but what has helped the most is not opening any of these apps to begin with - not seeing them on my app list - I realzed it was a subconscious urge to open them to begin with.
As a result, I feel less scattered, less headaches, I'm more productive, more present with my kids, the only downside is I'm a bit out of the loop on stuff that's happening. This is partly why I started using HN again. I read APnews and that's it.
Now I accept a lot more - part of that is going with the vibes as they say. I still read my code, but I feel less particular about it. Because it doesn't make mistakes like renaming things, I tolerate other things.
Like everyone else I feel like my process is different every week. I think the main difference is I've had a lot more time to make my "peace" with this way of working. When I lost my hands my only alternative was dictating character by character. I feel deep gratitude for this technology, which eclipses any anxiety or frustration that bubbles up. The debate is still strong here with many people saying it only produces slop, etc. It's like watching people go through the stages of grief. And I guess I've reached acceptance. I may come off as an 'advocate' but I think I am neutral on agentic coding. It's a new modality. It has pros and cons.