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id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
It's not a misunderstanding. I'm also happy for complete strangers. Jeff Bezos is enjoying his Amazon money? Great for him.

Also, I can't relate to feelings of shame or inadequacy because someone has something good happening to them. If anything, it motivates me to achieve the same.

id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
Yeah, but you changed the thought experiment from neighbourhood to "everyone in the world". This obviously would have a much, much bigger impact on my relative wealth.

And even then, the economy is not a zero-sum game. It is possible to become wealthier without making others poorer. If I get healthcare, it doesn't mean that someone else needs to be denied healthcare.

id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
>that "good feeling" is mostly a lie

I meant good as in "hey, that's great for them", not as in "I'm so happy I can't stop smiling".

>because we should not care about it

If people truly didn't care, they wouldn't go on social media or read the news.

id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
Yes, because if they made less money, it wouldn't help me at all (it could even hurt me because then they have nothing to share). In difficult personal situations, it has often helped me to know that at least others have it better.
id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
It's definitely not "human nature" to feel envy towards your friends and family, unless you have been wronged by them.
id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
You can compare yourself and enjoy the success of someone else.
id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
But even when it comes to acquaintances, when I hear about their great new job or vacation, I don't feel envious or bad. I compare myself to other people, yes, and of course I'd like to have some of the things I see, but not to the point that I would feel bad. Does every story about someone being successful make you feel bad? I doubt it, as that is not my personal experience at all.
id··on Taking a break from social media makes you happier and less anxious
If other people find their ideal job, have a tropical vacation, etc. it makes me feel... good? Those are good things in general, although the tropical vacation might make me also feel concerned about the climate.

The problems I have with social media are that

- it steals a lot of time

- a lot of content gets me by evoking negative emotion

- it's taxing to get exposed to so many different ideas, clips, heated discussions, etc. Makes we wanna throw away my phone and live in the woods

id··on $3B in Bitcoin was sold in a last-ditch attempt to save UST from collapse
Even if it goes below $10k, that would be normal price action for Bitcoin. It would start to get interesting if it goes below $1k.
id··on $3B in Bitcoin was sold in a last-ditch attempt to save UST from collapse
Similar or worse drops happened in 2016, 2017, 2018, and 2020. In other words, business as usual for Tether.
id··on Job interviews that go too far
Maybe there aren't that many no-slack full-time technical jobs.
id··on Pirate Site Blocking Is Making Its Way into Free Trade Agreements
You might not realize it, but you are giving credibility to decentralized currencies with this comment.
id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
Why only 80%? Why not 100%?

Assuming by country you mean the US, just being born there is already incredible luck. I have no idea what you're talking about really, there will always be people with less "luck". I work very hard, consider myself very lucky in general, but also unlucky in some aspects. And hell, I can't afford a home either, but I'm okay with that because I don't expect society to hand me one.

id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
Technically, stocks are also just some bits somewhere. Ownership in general is just an agreement. If you own a house, it's only really yours as long as people agree that it's yours and respect your ownership.
id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
A lot of economic activity is exactly that. Look no further than the big tech companies...
id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
Are you also bitter about people who win the lottery or in a casino?

I never asked anyone to take risks, and buying into unproductive assets is usually not a good idea. Neither is gambling. But holding this kind of resentment will eat at you. If other people get lucky, you should be glad, not hateful.

id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
Bitcoin is a bubble, but their 500k salary with bonuses is not. Go figure.
id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
There are also those of us who played with Bitcoin when it emerged, found it promising and mined it or bought some. Who took some profits along the way and never promoted it. Who still think it's a useful concept, _despite_ the hype that gets too much at times.

For what it's worth, you seem consumed by your envy. Accept that crypto investors, even the most stupid ones, took a risk you didn't take and were rewarded handsomely.

id··on Ask HN: Is anyone else glad the crypto market is crashing?
It was almost impossible to be alive in 2017 and not learn about crypto (and also watch it tank).
id··on Tether starting to lose its peg too, after Terra did
The problem with Tether is that for all we know, it could be completely unbacked and therefore worthless.
id··on The Day George Soros Broke the Bank of England to Make $1.1B (2021)
Isn't he already?
id··on The Day George Soros Broke the Bank of England to Make $1.1B (2021)
"Crypto Andys" already know this, the crypto community has been deeply distrustful of Tether since its inception.
id··on Tether starting to lose its peg too, after Terra did
It's already back to $1. But sure, every volatility in any shitcoin (even crypto bros make fun of USDT) must mean Bitcoin is being "extinguished".
id··on Feeling uncomfortable when leaving phone at home shouldn't be normal
But then I need two phones. Why?
id··on Feeling uncomfortable when leaving phone at home shouldn't be normal
You know, medical emergencies are a thing. You could always come across someone that needs help.
id··on Emerging evidence that mindfulness can sometimes increase selfish tendencies
Is it good to not care?
id··on Lessons learned from the recent job hunt
There are senior developers making less than 30k euros in Europe. $400k is absolutely unheard of. Not even CTOs make that much!
id··on When buying the dip doesn’t work: An analysis of the dot-com crash
US stocks are traded on foreign exchanges. Even if you insist on buying on a US exchange, the currency conversion is not very expensive. If you're a buy and hold investor, it won't matter at all.
id··on The Agony of Eros: Dating
>A man doesn't even get sex for the money.

What makes you think paying for Tinder gold entitles you to sex?

id··on Ask HN: Companies hiring for a 4-day workweek?
>you'd have to explain going beyond, say, 4 weeks

This is less than the PTO mandated by law in many European countries. Hardly unlimited.

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