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For me, "giving up" would be less about leaving tech and more about re-prioritizing towards other passions.
Best of luck!
- Psychology: self-worth gets tied to “doing it yourself,” so outsourcing feels like weakness or elitism.
- Trust: Handing over personal tasks (groceries, errands) feels riskier than it is.
- Friction: hiring, scheduling, and managing another human adds overhead.
- Perfectionism: many would rather do it “their way” than risk compromise and not have the job done perfectly.
Ironically, these same barriers make people more comfortable with AI assistants, where with AI, you have less friction, less stigma, fewer trust issues.
The real productivity hack isn’t just saving hours, it’s getting past the belief that you must be the one doing everything.
I stopped thinking of time as something to save up, and started treating it like something that leaks away whether you notice or not.
The haunting part isn’t the final day. it’s the missed days you can’t get back.
As Seneca put it: “It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste much of it.”
So for me, the question isn’t what I’d do with 10 years. It’s whether I’ll avoid wasting today.
Your practice of keeping book notes is such a great idea. Capturing what you felt in the moment can be priceless. I usually just note what I'm reading, it never occurred to me to write about my feelings about the read. It makes me wish I’d saved those thoughts when I first read some of my own favorites, like Don Quixote!
The mix of encouragement and critique is motivating, and it came at the right time since I’d been wondering whether to keep going.
I’ve spent decades in IT, mostly software dev and consulting, but writing and storytelling are new to me. The blog’s a work in progress, rough edges, a few nuggets, but I’m learning by doing. If one post helps someone else, that’s a win.
Thanks again for the thoughtful feedback. It really is a gift.
Glad to answer questions if anyone has them.
If you’re learning MVC, Scott’s OdeToCode/Pluralsight material still nails the fundamentals and the why behind them.
The upside is self-expression didn’t die, it just evolved into new forms such as vlogs, newsletters, short clips, etc...
My own blog probably fits the “new” style, but for me it’s more about practicing storytelling and sharing something that resonates.
Thanks for sharing.
I asked ChatGPT for a summary:
"3I/ATLAS is an interstellar visitor that doesn’t behave like any comet we know. It’s huge, gives off unusual gases, and shows strange chemistry that has some scientists wondering if it could even be artificial in origin. More answers should come as it swings close to the Sun in late 2025. In short: a massive interstellar object with a CO₂-dominated tail, odd nickel-without-iron chemistry, and an orbit strangely aligned with our Solar System — raising more questions than answers."
Plato: warns against mistaking simulation for truth (think shadows on the wall in 4K).
Socrates: reminds us that easy answers can kill questioning.
Seneca: cautions that the real danger isn’t robots rising, but humans surrendering their reason, becoming “zombies of the algorithm.”
TL;DR: AI isn’t inherently good or evil, but without transparency , accountability, and self-discipline, we risk losing our ability to think, question, and create. Ancient philosophy still has lessons for AI safety today.
Interested to hear your thoughts.
Thanks for your comment.
That said, as someone who loves juggling multiple projects, time tracking really helps me map things out and stay grounded.
Appreciate your comment!