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I would say hang in there, and once in a while give yourself permission to prioritise the "care for myself" over the "maintain a household".
Do things in little increments and don't torture yourself about not being full of energy all the time
That's a cognitive leap.
The reason I have become "bearish" on AI is because I see people repeatedly falling into a trap of believing LLMs are intelligent, and actively thinking, rather than just very very fine tuned random noise. We should pay attention to the A in AI more.
Hard to verify something so subjective, for sure. But a specialist will be applying intelligence to the data. An LLM is just generating random text strings that sound good.
The source for my claim about LLMs not summarizing but abbreviating is on hn somewhere, I'll dig it out
Edit: sorry, I tried but couldn't find the source.
And therefore it's impossible to test the accuracy if it's consuming your own data. AI can hallucinate on any data you feed it, and it's been proven that it doesn't summarize, but rather abridges and abbreviates data.
In the authors example
> "What patterns emerge from my last 50 one-on-ones?" AI found that performance issues always preceded tool complaints by 2-3 weeks. I'd never connected those dots.
Maybe that's a pattern from 50 one-on-ones. Or maybe it's only in the first two and the last one.
I'd be wary of using AI to summarize like this and expecting accurate insights
Except the alternative is I do this for free but also I'm doing all the testing and providing the hardware.
I'm only going to charge you if you do most of the work yourself
BTW if anyone is looking for an AI image enhancement, I actually found a tool for that called upscayl, which runs locally and does the same thing I assume this does under the hood which is just esrgan.
I have no affiliation to upscayl but I like that it runs locally and doesn't send your photos somewhere mysterious
The writing and illustrating activities use less energy, but the people out there using AI to generate ten novels and covers and fire them into the kindle store would not have written ten novels, so this is not displacement either
I remember in the late 80s a lot of the UFO reports were triangular craft, and then the nighthawk was unveiled to the public, that's when I started to think maybe the are no aliens and we're just seeing advanced military tech