133 karma · joined November 5, 2021
The main split that I see over and over again is that men are much less likely to accept you into their group, but much less likely to reject you once you're in (they are tribal). Women are fast to make acquaintances and have larger (mostly healthier) social circles, but are less loosely tied to groups.
1. There has been more demand for living in cities and less for rural areas
2. That demand has not been met with the same increases in housing supply, so prices rise
3. Low interest rates make housing an even more attractive investment, and throw gasoline on the fire
1. Find a couple of group events that you are interested in
2. Show up relentlessly, go in with no expectations
3. Gather contact details and KEEP IN TOUCH WITH PEOPLE
4. Eventually, find a way to add value to the group
To your point, meditation helps me quite a bit (along with long cardio and limiting media consumption)