> I didn't mention implicit conversions, but that's one area where Scala has taken the high risk high reward path.
We C++ veterans know that implicit conversions are one of the worst ideas to put in a language. They start simple enough and then they get clever, which is where trouble starts.
> i.e. if you know what you're doing have at it; otherwise keep to a strict subset
There are few things about programming language design we know, because getting empirical data is so hard. One of the few things we do know (from C++ in the nineties, of course) is that this kind of design doesn't work. The average codebase lifespan is about a decade, during which time people move around and team leads change. Everyone has their own discipline, and by year 5 (usually earlier), the codebase is unmaintainable.
Of course, now that C++ has been re-branded and re-purposed as a specialized language for close-to-hardware software, and is used by specialists, it is doing quite well. I certainly wouldn't mind Scala marketing itself -- like C++ and Haskell do -- as a language for specialists (although even specialists would be better off opting for the excellent OCaml implementation on the JVM, or even Frege if Haskell is your cup of tea).
There is absolutely no reason to be as multi-paradigm as Scala is on the most polyglot platform around, which brings me to:
> that power... is what draws dsl authors to Scala.
One of the great things about the JVM is its relatively easy inter-language interop. I would use a meta-language made for DSLs (like Clojure, MPS or Xtext) for my DSL, while I'll write the infrastructure in Java/Kotlin. Learning Java and Clojure, or Kotlin and MPS, is easier than learning Scala alone (well enough for DSLs), and the results are cleaner, produce more maintainable code and better error messages (well, I wouldn't say Clojure excels at error messages, but at least the DSL writer has full control over them, and can make them quite good with an extra bit of effort).
Also, I'd like to see what those DSL codebases look like after five years of heavy usage (not to mention the error messages Scala spits out, which are completely unparsable to anyone who does not understand how the DSL is constructed).