where do you get that he was going to be nice from?
12:19 in this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=762&v=yf8GR3OO9mU
"You were getting a warning, but now you're going to jail."
Why not admit the "warning" upfront? Maybe exactly like the one happening the first minute of the video?
As for why he didn't say so right away the second time, probably because she was making faces or otherwise indicating that she was mad. And that is when he starts asking more questions.
I bet the minute she refused to put out her cig, he was going to give her a real ticket.
If the cigarette is such an issue, why didn't he ask her that before she rebuked his grounds for the ticket? He's power tripping the whole time after she hints that she's not pleased, and you're greenlighting his power trip because she wasn't a bootlicker.
This is victim blaming at its finest... she's rightfully angry, and you're saying we can't blame the cop for not keeping his cool?