Not sure what IRC channels she has been hanging out in, or what her spam filters are letting through, but this has not been my experience at all... in 10 years of contributing to OSS.
However, attractive female posts videos (yep, even conference talk) on the Internet, and attention ensues?
Maybe it's not an "industry" thing. Maybe it's something else.
[EDIT] -- Wow, thanks for the votes folks. The author wants to blame "the Industry" for something that is not unique to the industry.