A Curious Midlife Crisis for a Tech Entrepreneur

This is my second stint wandering the world for over a year and I know a few other doing the same, so I thought I'd be reading about a kindred spirit.

But instead I was pretty repulsed. I had assumed that the unhappiness in his life-style and the journey to cultivate relationships would end up in personal growth story, but it sounds like he started out as a really shallow, self-centered, and boorish guy and ends up... mostly unchanged.

Maybe that's being ungenerous, or just how it comes off in the article.

For me, while it's fun to see/meet up with friends in far flung places, my reasons of traveling are more about experiencing the world (it's a big place) and different cultures (and how they are different or the same.

I think my biggest objection to Grinda is aesthetic - the idea of reducing possessions and traveling light is to force yourself to grow in specific ways - to be more flexible, resourceful, mindful, and humble. It seems that Grinda managed the trick of getting rid of his stuff and starting a physical journey, while avoiding much of the personal journey that's meant to precipitate, first by inconveniencing others and then by papering over challenges/inconveniences with money instead.

Everyone's free to live their own lives, and hey, maybe he is happier now, but I think it's missing the point a bit.

I feel a little bit sorry for him. He's clearly a lonely guy who hasn't really managed to learn the social skills that enable you to have friends who are happy to have you around them. The money doesn't change that.

Pro tip: if you stay with a friend, go ahead and do your own laundry if you're over the age of 9.

One of the best interviews I've ever heard was Gregory Galant interviewing Fabrice Grinda on Venture Voice in 2009[1].

Grinda is candid and his story is amazing.

EDIT: the awesome interview was in 2005[2], not 2009, although the 2009 one is great too.

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[1] - http://www.venturevoice.com/2009/04/fabrice_grinda_olx.html

[2] - http://www.venturevoice.com/2005/12/vv_show_21_fabrice_grind...

It would benefit this guy if he stopped being overbearing on others and instead tried doing something productive with his money. Like going up against rhino poachers. Or build schools in Afganistan.

I know the perfect girl for him, can anyone make an introduction? She is a former model who does the exact same thing ... and also drives people a little crazy for the same reasons.

This really isn't the kind of stuff I like to read about or expect to find on this site.

Traveling the world isn't exactly a downgrade. Rich people problems.