Ask HN: Startups and health insurance?

Moving to SF to work with static web tech in a startup (netlify.com) is a dream come true.

But one thing that I'm totally unfamiliar with is health insurance. I'm from Denmark and we simply don't have any. So any and all advice is very welcome.

My wife, 7-year-old daughter and I are looking for good insurance, where the deductible isn't huge. Is this possible without going bankrupt before we get started?

I've seen a few of these threads, but all seems to be several years old, so thought I'd make a new one, with Obamacare and whatnot happening in the last few years.