Let's downshift.
> In every single one of those cases, including the Cretaceous–Paleogene asteroid situation, you would be better off on earth than on mars as it is today by a mile.
In that hypothetical, Earth is what's hit by such an event. Let's say you have a self-sufficient colony of Mars of around 10,000 people. Let's say a civilization-destroying and mass-dying event happens on Earth. Would you be better off on Mars or on Earth? That's the argument that was constructed; that's the value of such an option if it did exist. A conditional, hypothetical argument, but whatever.
> but lets stop with the delusion that moving even one person to a completely uninhabitable place - as in almost anywhere on earth would be easier to live in, including under the ocean - 140,000,000 miles away is a practical idea.
Not arguing that we have all the tech already, thus making it a practical idea today. But arguing that if it did exist, you would be better off than if it didn't.
Also, not arguing for terraforming Mars or anything like that. Enclosed habitats of some kind, perhaps.
Not arguing for not also developing the ability to live in extreme environments on Earth (like in the ocean).
> The idea that "maybe some practical technology will come from it" is not a good reason to do anything. Using that logic we should be perpetually at war as nothing has moved technology further and faster than war.
Green field, long shot projects don't have a good reason to be worth doing?
Not arguing 'hey, drop everything and work on this project'. Also, not arguing 'there are no direct technological benefits of X, but look at these positive after effects'. I was specifically mentioning that beyond the fact that a backup is valuable, there are other direct benefits of the attempt to build such a backup. There's the industry that might develop around it and all of that economic benefit, new technology and science in not just the stuff needed to survive on Mars but also to transport materials to Mars and cheaper launch of materials into LEO and safe transport of humans over perhaps even a dozen light minutes.