Data is not simple rows. Data is complex, human generated stuff that has both implicit and explicit structure and it does not collapse down well to any single abstraction, not even object graphs. Fine, so we have to pick some abstraction. That doesn't mean the abstraction we pick is necessarily appropriate. Memory is an abstraction; we could just dump all of memory out to a file and call that a database (and folks used to, and still do sometimes). It has issues for persistent databases, like brittleness and pointer swizzling, so we adopt a more high level one.
The relational view of data is a higher level abstraction but that doesn't mean it's an especially useful one. Hierarchy is something that comes up constantly in the real world and that is something very awkward to represent in a relational database. You can try to use Codd's adjacency list, but reassembling the links is costly and drilling down a hierarchy requires a database query at every level. If you don't believe me, here's a use case: I want everything there is about a sub-part of a Bill of Materials with one query and without having to grope through the entire index. There's a reason why Oracle implemented CONNECT BY, which is abjectly non-relational.
Also the sheer amount of research and work that goes into making even a simplistic relational database responsive is enormous; when Baker wrote this it was not uncommon to lose two orders of magnitude throughput by going to a relational database from a custom written one, and if you were very lucky be able to claw back another order of magnitude by indexes. People today are complaining greatly about the inefficiencies of using row-structured data when you're usually interested in the columns. Even today the way to get maximum throughput from a database is to denormalize and in doing so virtually set the schema in stone.
A 1960s era heirarchial database could traverse a heirarchy as fast as the computer could request data from memory. The models were brittle and didn't always represent the real world well, but you could run an entire country's airlines in the amount of computing power your watch has now. The banks today rely on IBM's IMS, which is hierarchial.