Every other quant develper/trader I've met works at a fund or sell-side firm.
Market data is via a consolidated feed and execution via my broker to a variety of venues. I don't run any high frequency strategies so 100ms from exchange data to execution is fine for me.
I use R for most research and strategy development.
Also, are you able to detail where you source your market data from?
Sounds like a really interesting setup I'd love to know more about it.
There are many more strategies that will generate consistent returns on a few million dollars than there are that will generate the same return on a hundred million dollars.
This is a key advantage of being an individual and a problem every quant fund faces as they grow.