It is a very good idea to keep a few days' worth of non-perishable food and water on hand, even in the absence of an apocalyptic "SHTF" scenario. Things happen. A few years back my town was hit by a hurricane, and our water was out for three days after an electrical failure fouled the municipal purification systems. I had enough bottled water on hand to ride that out comfortably, which was nice.
But that's not "prepping" so much as just common sense. Building a fortified cabin in the woods and stocking it with AR-15s is something else entirely. It's getting ready for a scenario that I'm not sure it's entirely possible to ever be "ready" for.
That is the problem I see with this kind of "prepping": its isolationism. The focus in such a situation should not be an every-man-or-family-for-itself attitude. The focus should be on getting all the people who aren't "zombies" together to begin rebuilding long-term living solutions.
Besides, turning away starving people and keeping everything for yourself is just plain wrong.
All that is not to say that there wouldn't be "bandits", and that it wouldn't be necessary to defend the "good guys." But the fundamental attitude seems wrong to me.
Fun story: I got onto I-440 around Raleigh after Floyd came through, and there was this long line of cars driving really slowly. Really bizarre, since most of the time the road is a racetrack. I get to the head of it, and they're all following an ice truck to it's next stop so they can top-up their coolers.
The thing people lose sight of when they hear "those guys are storing years worth of food in their basement" is that those people aren't necessarily storing it for themselves. In a real disaster, those people are in a better position than most to help their neighbors out.
It's a pretty big contrast between that mindset and the common prepper/survivalist mindset.
That's an excellent point. The "prepper" mindset seems to be about isolationist survival, Castaway style. That's not a good long-term mindset. If a real Bad Thing happened, after the immediate aftermath, people would need to start coming together to rebuild societies and communities and infrastructures, not disappearing into the wilderness.