Yes actually he did reply to you. Why is that message in your history then? Did somebody hack your account, or are you still lying?
Each time you lie you dig yourself deeper. You were projecting when you accused other people of exploiting the suicide to promote their agenda (while using it to promote your own), and you're projecting when you're calling me impudent now.
When you deleted it, it no longer appeared on the discussion page unless you set showdead = yes, but is still in your history:
https://news.ycombinator.com/threads?id=fwn
If you have showdead = yes, you can clearly see your posting marked [deleted] and his reply to it here:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9458661
Aren't you aware that it's easy for anyone to check and prove that you're lying?
What exactly did you mean by "Ok, I feel like I'm on /r/all ..." and why did you post that? Can you explain your own words, please? What did you originally say that caused smhenderson to reply directly to you "And here you are on hacker news using it to push yours." and that got downvoted so much than you edited it then deleted it? Obviously you edited it then deleted it, since his direct reply to your post is to something else than your comment about /r/all.
And while we're on the topic that you raised in the first place, and you seem to have an agenda to push about it, what are your views on gamer gate?