You may be right, but what I meant is that every rubyist i know looking into elixir is after massively persistent connections. Websocket, basically, to thousands or more clients. They are leaving ruby because it simply cannot offer that (I don't care what DHH says. No-one big is doing EM WS in production, nor should they).
Phoenix has a steeper learning curve than rails but is addressing the new paradigm of persistent duplex connections. Rails remains unapologetically a request-based framework, ActionCable notwithstanding. That is fine. 99% of today's apps don't that. Right tool for the job! But to me, the future is very clear.
I'm heavy into ruby too, but speaking pragmatically, it and elixir are playing different games in different ballparks. That's why I said they don't compete.