FWIW, FFT-based convolutional methods aren't better for a lot of common sizes (including a bunch of AlexNet/VGG/GoogLeNet sizes). http://arxiv.org/abs/1412.7580 has a pretty thorough evaluation of im2col + gemm vs fused gemm (cudnn) vs fft.
And since they claim fbfft was even faster than cufft, the situation should look even better for fft.
EDIT: And they are about tied in the 3x3, 64 case.