OKCupid has explored the topic of interracial dating repeatedly using their dataset. The most(?) recent results are here:

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/

Relevant summary: Black women are subjected to substantial penalties in the dating market by men of other ethnicities. In fact, black women are the recipients of the highest inter-racial penalties of any racial pair measured by OkCupid.

(Although I generally agree with your point.)