Sound travels at about 340 m/s (in a typical room). That means it travels about 3.4 metres in 10 milliseconds. Therefore another way to get a 10 millisecond problem is to stand 3.4 metres from the orchestra.
Most people sit farther than 3.4 metres from the orchestra, yet they don't complain about a lag between when the violin bow moves and the sound is heard. Why not?
(The speed of light is so fast that we can assume it's effectively infinite for the purposes of this argument.)