Easy
1.
> Is the trade surplus mainly affected by private enterprise?
Hell yes.
> If that's the case, what control does the German
> government have over it if the businessmen running the
> companies would rather save than spend?
Good question. They could put export tariffs and forbid the immigration of "highly skilled labor". (If you make at least 30k Euro you get a work permit immediately. If not, just ask for asylum and you get better benefits than most pensioners.) It could abolish export financing and government guarantees for export financing.
2.
> I'm personally conservative with money, and never like to > get into debt, so from a this naive point of view, I
> would be very happy to know my country has a large buffer > to weather out any oncoming storms.
It is impossible to save money without someone else going into debt. Germany is not creating a buffer, it is exporting both, capital and goods. She does dumping with salaries for engineers and exports like crazy. She has too, since there is not enough money people can spent in Germany since the salaries are so low. At the same time, "Germany" is not getting any financial buffer. She gets Lehman debt obligations and Greek government debt. Germans take pride in being the leading exporter of goods. They better would take pride in "giving away products for free". But in fact, there is someone profiting: Private, highly export oriented enterprises. And there are three kinds of people footing the bill:
1. Employees that are highly underpaid.
2. Tax payers that will have to foot the bill for the bail outs.
3. Citizens that see there infrastructure, universities and public services crumble.
In short: Germany is exporting itself to death.
3.
> What books would you recommend for a complete newcomer to learn about macro economics?
Hm. Hart to say. There are so may. Mises, no matter what you think about him, is good for an introduction. But later you will realize that he failed in most things. Keynes may be right. In the end, we are all fucked.
"There is No Steady State Economy (except at a very basic level)"
http://ourfiniteworld.com/2011/02/21/there-is-no-steady-stat...
Limits to Growth–At our doorstep, but not recognized
http://www.resilience.org/stories/2014-02-12/limits-to-growt...
Wealth And Energy Consumption Are Inseparable
http://www.declineoftheempire.com/2012/01/wealth-and-energy-...
Galactic-Scale Energy
http://physics.ucsd.edu/do-the-math/2011/07/galactic-scale-e...