This is the dusty trap door. Just so you know, getting rich is "weird"[1] for a lot of people. You can see examples of it in lottery winners, movie stars, and tech employees.
Of course some folks tie their net worth to their self image. This is, in my experience, both common and a moral hazard. But that said, the more interesting thing is that people in a company have opinions about other people in the company, and during a 'liquidity' event (aka IPO or sale) there can be a lot of drama and angst around the internal metrics people are carrying around in their head and the monetary reward that gets paid out.
You need only imagine someone in your company, who you have a very low opinion of their contribution, become $FU rich while you see only a modest change in your personal net worth. I have seen that dynamic break people.
[1] And oddly getting 'un rich' as many did during the dot com explosion is less weird.
You probably shouldn't work in the tech industry if that upsets you :-)
Once the IPO happens and you pay your employees $4.5 million, their $100-$200k salary doesn't seem worth much anymore. What actually would have happened to Facebook, if they did this? Is it possible that the company collapses, while too many employees quit so they can do their own thing, or retire? Would they have had to double or triple everyone's salaries to keep them on board?
I could see it being a disaster. It could also significantly de-value a company's IPO (or sale) because the investors would see this as a massive risk. At least until it's been tested with a company that IPOs.
The excruciating burden of going to work is almost non existent if you can say fuck off at any moment. A lot of folks there do lots of interesting and fun stuff.
While you could see some run away I would suppose that the numbers will be small if you have good corporate culture and policies.
Good point about adding risk to the IPO.
edit: BTW working at companies like Facebook and Google is pretty good from a lifestyle perspective so I'm guessing most wouldn't leave.
Some more recently hired SVP brought him with her on a trip to various offices as her go-to guy to make sure she wasn't bullshitted when discussing a specific project with the local teams. He had often brought along on trips like this in the past because of years of experience he had with the company infrastructure.
To be nice, each time she would offer to get her PA to book the flights and hotels, so he could benefit from her ability to get them booked into better rooms than the standard policy would allow for his role. Each time he'd politely declined.
Finally she pressed the issue and asked why he didn't want the better rooms.
Turned out he'd done well enough out of the IPO that he soon afterwards had decided to buy apartments near the local offices in the 5-6 cities across Europe where the main subsidiaries were, so he'd not have to stress with packing etc. when travelling there.
"Although the model may seem fair on the onset, it can be criticized the same way we criticize a flat tax. Those at the threshold are "punished" the most."
It seems to me that because it's a "progressive" tax this criticism doesn't apply.
Edit: math checks out now, I think
Does that clarify it @cespare?