Ask HN: Do you listen to country music?
Does it help?
If you listen to it long enough, someone has sung about whatever exact, or almost exact, experience you have gone through. I like that.
I listen to stuff that might be mistaken for it, though! The Avett Brothers, Nickel Creek, Trampled by Turtles.
Folk music, but people who think badly of country music usually don't like banjos, either, and can't make the distinction in genre.