Everyone who uses XMPP/iMessage/Adium to connect to Google Talk is:
1) Apparently missing some messages from Hangouts users. Haven't been able to track it down but it's gotten me in trouble with my girlfriend a few times for "ignoring her"
2) Your friends see you as "Online" on hangouts and send you messages, which often seem to relate to #1 (you never see them).
This has been a nightmare for me over the last 2 years and I can't stand how something as simple and SOLVED as chat protocol has been nuked and replaced with proprietary crap that thinks it's impressive to announce a semantic MAJOR release update that touts "Group Messaging" as a major new innovation (I'm looking at you, Apple).
Ok, rant over. Take care my friends and let's just switch everyone to IRC and be done with it.