It's not that there are no benefits, but there's not a driving
need that these products you describe solve that makes up for the additional cost and complexity that implementing them provides. What's the value proposition? If it's "just cool", then there probably isn't one.
1) There are real benefits with Nest since it can reduce energy consumption. Also, Nest isn't really a whole lot more expensive than other thermostats, and there's very little additional complexity.
2) There are lots of problems with locks: you're taking a $15 item, adding some wireless gear and servos to it, and adding significant installation cost and complexity (since you have to somehow power the thing). The alternative is you spend a few bucks getting keys cut to give your friends temporary access. Also there are security concerns here.
3) This one is pretty low effort (since there is already a lot of radio equipment in a garage door opener) but also pretty low benefit: 90% of the time you open the garage door you're in your car, where the opener is within easy reach. I don't think the value of this feature is very high.
4) They have these today. Less useful than you might think, and like anything mechanical, they break. Also, since blinds are typically not powered, this adds cost and complexity since you have to run electricity to your windows. These are a niche product in my mind; if you couldn't justify them 10 years ago, you won't when they're connected to an IoT platform either.
5) While cool, it's still hard to justify the additional cost and complexity. There's not really a driving need other than "oh that's cool". Until the cost comes down significantly, it's still a niche product for people who want to geek out their home. At today's prices, you're looking at $40 for a single light switch compared to $5 for a non-connected switch, plus you have to configure it to do what you want.
I'm all for building cool new products, but consumers want products that reduce cost and complexity, not ones that increase them.