You want to make sure TLS_ECDHE_RSA_WITH_AES_128_GCM_SHA256 is negotiated, at least where browsers support it. (It's spelled "ECDHE-RSA-AES128-GCM-SHA256" in OpenSSL.) There's a small handful of others that are also acceptable, but between ECDSA certificates being rare and CHACHA20_POLY1305 still being standardized, that's the one you want. All the rest are legacy baggage.
Mozilla has some server-side recommendations here: https://wiki.mozilla.org/Security/Server_Side_TLS