We were in the same situation. But we were completely open with our YC founders and they helped us a lot in getting into YC and with tons of advice. It seems like you are building the relation ship wrong based on some sort of deception. I would think about it.
This works OK when you have direct relationships with the YC Founders -- but when you are only tangentially connected in a big company... It is hard to know where rumors go.
Thank you treeform for your answer. I agree that if this would be possible this would be the best way to go.
Unfortunately all the founders are not the same, and mine are not opened AT ALL to these kind of initiatives :)
Without knowing much, this does come across as very hypocritical of them to do this to you. It seems like the type of attitude that would be frowned upon by the YC community.