Keeping Your Hair in Chemo
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Cold caps were an excellent way to make an already miserable experience much worse. She gave up after three chemo sessions.
Everyone is different and for some people the losing your hair is a huge loss on top of an already shitty situation, so anything that helps people through it is a good thing.
My wife ended up bald and for once in our marriage we shared the same hair cut! Gutsy lady, I remember the tears when the clumps started to fall out but she stoically put it behind her, whilst chemo wreaked its chaos. Time passed and now she has "chemo hair" and its still full of curls a year after the weekly chemo finished.
Forehead thermometers also always measure my body temperature a degree or two too low.
Taken together, I wonder if that means I've got a naturally cool scalp which somehow protected my hair from falling out.
Different drugs do different things. My chemo specifically targeted fast growing cells in the body, including testes (where the cancer originated) and hair follicles. Every hair on my body fell out. When it grew back, it was curlier than normal for awhile, and my beard came back a different color, but that's pretty much all gone now two years on.
From an economic point of view though, there's easy evidence that hair has a high value based off of how much people (especially women) put into it's maintenance, via luxury shampoo/conditions, haircuts, hair styling, etc. So it's not surprising that saving one's hair would be worth the $2,000 average cost, plus the labor of switching them.
If you lose all your hair, everyone knows you have cancer, whereas if you have your hair, you can choose who to disclose that information to. The proximal difference may be the unsolicited comments (most of them well-meaning, but still jarring), but there are probably more that I haven't thought of because I haven't walked a mile in their shoes.
Even so, I imagine it would easily be worth $2K to me to not have a glaring billboard that advertises my physical ailments publicly where ever I go. (I'm visualizing wearing a t-shirt that says "I have strep throat/whooping cough," but you know, more serious...)
What about reconstructive surgery? That's cosmetic too. Do you think that's also silly?
Meh. a sister who is under 40 needs estrogen shots now, and I regularly use Rogaine -- the things we do to appear "normal".