My understanding is that, among other things, the generators come under extreme stress during exceptionally windy occasions, causing a lot of wear and tear that happens way up at the top of these giant windmills.
These require a lot of manual maintenance, which is dangerous and expensive due to the nature (and location) of the work.
Additionally (and as a demonstration of just how much stress they come under), while coming under said strain, they've been known to burst into flames https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_oFPF6Anwo
As for their lifespan, the government agencies that build them claim 25 years, but there's controversy about this. Searching online will find you conflicting studies, including this one http://www.ref.org.uk/publications/280-analysis-of-wind-farm..., which states
"Analysis of site-specific performance reveals that the average normalised load factor of new UK onshore wind farms at age 1 (the peak year of operation) declined significantly from 2000 to 2011" indicating that they may wear out more on the order of ten years.
Now that was a cursory search but in any case the argument that the wind farms cost so much to maintain that they're nonviable is not new.
Wind turbines aren't exotic tech, but it is a giant turbine that is placed way up on a pole, and fundamentally a turbine will need maintenance, so someone has to go up and do that maintenance, and that's expensive.