The reasoning at the protocol level then goes, "If I have never seen this nonce, then the transaction has not been authorized" (very durable, easy to implement), and "A request seen multiple times will only be recorded once" (also very durable and easy to implement).
But if the message infrastructure tries to guarantee at-most-once, and the user writes their protocol, "if I see this authorization I should do it, because the protocol will only send it to me one time." Then there will come a time in that protocols future where something blew up the invariants in the message infrastructure and the message arrives twice, and the wrong thing happens on the credit card because the protocol trusts it to do the right thing.
Back in the RPC wars people were arguing that it was so much "simpler" and more "transparent" if a remote procedure call had the exact same semantics as a local procedure call. And that is true it would be, if you could manage that similarity, except it has been proven over and over again that network messaging systems can't completely get it correct.