I think it's entirely unjustified. What makes modern software engineering difficult is that it's one of the few engineering disciplines where not only are you making a Boeing 747 fly, and all the parts were made by different people in different locations, but you're also replacing the engine in flight!
Also the specs on the parts are kind of spotty. They weren't agreed upon by a single group of people, and they certainly weren't decided by you. Some of the parts are decades old. There are parts in there that are older than most of us!
Often, the parts decide to change how they work. They don't ask you whether they should. Sometimes, also, the parts decide to disappear. It's up to you to figure that out.
In fact, there aren't really specs on how the parts go together, come to think of it. None of the people who are building this are talking to each other. You could say that most of it is kind of emergent. There are no top-down quality controls.
There are layers upon layers of abstraction, and no one knows all of it. No one even knows most of it. In fact, most people don't care about any of it other than a cubic centimeter of their own few layers.
And it works - by golly it works. And a person with no training can absentmindedly navigate all this by flicking their finger about while walking down the street and drinking their coffee. IMHO, this is a miracle in proportions that are indescribable. The moon landing really was nothing compared to this. So yes, there's some overhead involved in getting that to work. :-)