Death is everywhere, it seems that he has fully accepted the fact that all people are mortal and like him, you will die too.
Also, I'm pretty sure that for him it isn't about proving things for other people, it's about how climbing makes him feel about himself.
There are a lot of passions that are very safe most of the time yet present life threatening risk in peak doses during small moments of time. E.g. crossing an ocean on a sailboat, backcountry skiing, etc
More importantly: he knows what he cannot climb with sufficient certainty to try free solo.
BASE jumping, while even more dangerous with many outcomes resulting in death, is something I'm considering on trying in the future.
I don't really do it because of the risk. Sure, I love the adrenaline rush and I love doing extreme things, but that's not the core reason. I know many people who have lost a half dozen really good friends each throughout their lives. That is absolutely devastating. Every time there's a fatality, it spreads through the community rather quickly.
I do it because the experience is like no other, being able to fly through the sky (I mean, how can this view[0] not be attractive). It's also an extremely social sport. You get to form close relationships with total strangers rather quickly.
I could also die driving everyday, the odds say I'd have a better chance at dying in a car than skydiving. So there's always the logical route based on historical evidence.