I suppose its just down to fate, and I'm glad he found something he loved doing, but man, it's disheartening to read about someone casually walking into your dream job and just as casually walking away.
I suppose its just down to fate, and I'm glad he found something he loved doing, but man, it's disheartening to read about someone casually walking into your dream job and just as casually walking away.
The reason I applied to the Foreign Service is because it is a meritocracy. It all came down to how you did on the test, and later the interviews/case studies.
It's unfortunate that it's your dream job and you didn't get it, and I sympathize, but the Foreign Service admission process is one of the most transparent ones I've seen. The first step is passing a test, and anyone above a certain threshold moves to the next step. There are more tests, and anyone above those thresholds gets on the list to be accepted.
Perhaps the system was different when you applied in 2008.
Edit: That said, I'd be disheartened too and I don't really think your parent's "dig" was justified.