The problem is they use reverse psyc, hidden triggers, double negatives, etc.
For example, I can't remember if it was Downloads.com or SourceForge, I recently almost installed Vosteran because the option to deselect the "extra awesomeness" was hidden in "Advanced Install" section and I had clicked on "Normal Install".
I've also seen plenty of "Accept Offer" with "Decline Offer" next to it, greyed out like it was disabled.
Plenty of examples exist of them TECHNICALLY giving you an opt-out - but hiding that opt out in every way imaginable.
For a modern top of the range CPU you can expect maybe ~5MH/s (likely even less)
If 1 million people install utorrent and have their processors mining constantly, you can expect a daily profit of about $14