Heh, not quite.
Treat objects and arrows abstractly like you're building a graph. Actual meaning can be applied later. A category is thus a set (or proper class) of objects, O, and a set (or proper class) of arrows, A along with two mappings dom and cod from A -> O. The laws are first that for any object (o in O) there exists an arrow (id(o) in A) such that dom(id(o)) = o and cod(id(o)) = o and second that if you have two arrows (f, g in A) such that cod(f) = dom(g) then there is defined their composition (compose(f,g) in A) such that dom(compose(f,g)) = dom(f) and cod(compose(f,g)) = cod(g).
You can draw all that as the objects and arrows and things these slides display. So far this just gives you a graph-like structure.
The "category laws" ensure coherence of the category and state that (compose(f, id(x)) = f) when defined, (compose(id(x), g) = g) when defined, and that compose is associative. From an abstract algebraic POV this is almost like saying that A is a monoid which ought to (correctly) suggest that most of the interesting structure of a category is carried by the arrows.
Now, if you want to talk about specific categories you can do what you were doing. For instance, the category of sets, Set, is the category where you take O to be the proper class of all sets and A to be the functions between them. Immediately, you'll find that dom(.)/cod(.) are the domain and codomain of your functions, id(.) locates the identity function on a set, and compose(.,.) composes functions.
As a more interesting example you could consider Grp the category where O is all groups and A is all group homomorphisms. This is a subcategory of Set obviously and it also comes with much more interesting structure. For instance, an important category theoretic statement about Grp is that Grp has a "zero object", which is to say that (a) there exists an object init such that there is a unique arrow from init to any other object, (b) there exists an object fin such that there is a unique arrow from any other object to fin, and (c) init = fin.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zero_object_%28algebra%29