A Surprising Comparison of Male vs. Female Microbiomes
ubiomeblog.com
ubiomeblog.com
"It turns out that in our dataset, there is no statistically significant difference between male microbiomes and female microbiomes. And, given a random sample, we would not be able to determine if it came from a man or a woman."
Their tables show pretty big differences in the categories Actinobacteria (73% more in men) and Verrucomicrobia (88% more in women). Maybe their sample is so small even these very different averages are just attributable to random chance, but it seems they've made a conscious choice not to reveal the size of their database.
What this tells me is that animals are conservative with their hormones. Allowing arbitrary proteins to seep into our gut would be wasteful.
There's also that if we allowed bacteria to be affected by our sex hormones, that would also make our reproduction susceptible to alteration by those bacteria. Natural selection cuts the finest when it comes to the genes involved in procreation. So it should be rare to find a symbiotic organism with a sex organ. Viral organisms of course don't care if the host dies, or can't have babies.
I remember an article about mollusks. I searched and found this: http://phys.org/news/2012-09-team-mollusk-gender-ages.html
Also, from Wikipedia, many fishes change from male to female, for example clownfish (aka Nemo): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_change#In_animals
I'm going to go out on a limb and say that you can detect a gender difference here.
On a serious note, for better or worse it seems that 'microbiome' is often used colloquially to mean 'gut microbiome'