My original comment on this whole discussion was that few databases write more than 100GB a day. I am not talking about whether you inserted n integers or updated so many varchar columns -- when you actually monitor its IO, it is extremely unlikely that your database exceeds 100GB a day of writes, and in all likelihood is a magnitude or two below this. Whenever anyone waves their hands and talks about databases as if they somehow imply massive use, they're just fearmongering -- actual empirical stats are your friend, and actual empirical stats show that most real-world databases barely register on the lifespan of most SSDs.

So now that we're in an understanding that we're talking about database writes to IO, the other matter is how it writes it. I've built a lot of systems on a lot of databases, and the write amplification has generally been very low. I've been building and running significant databases on SSDs for about 7 years now, and while everyone else is finally starting to realize that they're wasting their time if they aren't, we still see the sort of extreme niche fearmongering that makes other people clutch onto their magnetic storage (and I heard it the entire time. "OMG but don't databases kill flash???!?!?". No, certain volumes of writes and types of writes do. Only metering will tell you if that applies). Yes, some people do very odd things that can kill storage, but that is extremely rare. It almost certainly doesn't apply to the overwhelming percentage of HN readers.