Yeah, the build machine churns a lot. But that work should be primarily done by the FS cache, by buffers. Yes, it's going to write out those small files, but if DragonflyBSD has any kind of respectable kernel, though should be a solid curve, not lots of bursts.
I would love if my old colleague Przemek from Wikia would talk about the SSD wear on our MySQL servers which had about 100k-200k databases per shard.
We wore the _fuck_ out of some SSDs.
You should replace your HDDs with SSDs, though, for a number of reasons, and take the long view, as kryptistk noted the OP is doing. Really compare the cost of SAS 15k drives and Intel 320s or 530s.
But I think in his place, you can take the words of the inimitable Mr. Bergman:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7PJ1oeEyGg
Stop wasting your life. But don't expect a machine that does lots of random IO, like a database, to have 1-2% SSD wear after two years. It might not last two years. If it does, use it more. Aren't you making money with these drives? ;)