The true, provable safety of Rust was what drew me to it as well. I've always hated having to choose between un-principled memory management (with it's security and functionality vulnerabilities that can lie dormant for many years before kicking your butt) and garbage-collection forcing you away from the metal and removing deterministic reasoning about memory usage, runtime behavior, and runtime overhead.
I've been going through the academic papers, forerunners, and source-code for Rust's static memory routines and borrowing semantics. My hope and suspicion is that it can be added to Nim without core changes to the language like lifetimes. It's definitely not a guarantee, but with lots of experience in both languages now I feel very strongly that adding region-based-memory-management to Nim is possible while adding Nim's clarity, abstractions, and efficiency to Rust feels impossible.
I agree that at the moment Rust is the only responsible choice right now if provable memory safety is a primary concern, but I suspect that will change. In the mean-time, for us anyway, the price was too high in productivity when we discovered that we could do manual memory management in Nim in very well-considered isolated places and confidently use Nim's fast, real-time deterministic per-thread garbage-collection for everything else without a noticeable performance penalty.
Having said that, I don't think I actually disagree with anything you said (: